Should I leave my husband?

Question

Only been married a year but we have been together for 3 and a half years.  No intimacy whatsoever between us for years now... We probably do it once a month if I’m lucky... We hardly ever talk, and
 the past few weeks  we don’t talk at all. I am financially dependent on him, I have no job and no money of my own.  I am actively looking for a job but no luck yet. This  relationship is making me so depressed...  I feel that I can’t even talk to him and express my feelings. When I am upset, he just doesn’t give a shit. I know that if I tell him I want to leave, he would cut my credit card and he’s done it before...   I really don’t know what to do...   Does any one know the law here in California? Am I entitled for a financial support if we ever get a divorce?

Accepted Answer

Why tf would you ask if you’re entitled to financial support after divorcing him?! GET A JOB! There’s no way you can’t find a job when there are a million places hiring. You might have to work somewhere you don’t want to be but stay there until you find something better. You shouldn’t be staying with him just for money and you shouldn’t be expecting this man to take care of you after you divorce him. Smh

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Use the CC and buy a ton of gift cards for the future. Just in case you need groceries or gas.

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Find a job and move out , stay with friend or family until you get on your feet . Apply for some type of financial help when your divorced . Not sure how it would work if your married and he has income but I would just get a job and move out . No point of staying if there’s nothing left in that relationship sorry .

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Talk to him. Join a gym to stay busy and productive, maybe make some friends.
Tell him how u feel.
Change ur attitude to positive. 
Maybe see a Doc about ur depression.
Theres women with real reasons why they wanna leave (abuse with a threat on their life, cheating). 
Dont just give up cuz ur going thru a rough patch. 
Maybe get a part time job u will enjoy.
U just sound depressing.

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I don’t think so :( keep looking for a job, go to your family for help.

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Have you considered marriage counseling?

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No, you won’t be entitled to anything. I don’t understand why you’re not working. It can’t be THAT hard to find something that makes some money. You need to do that regardless of whether or not you stay in this relationship.

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Why did you marry him if it's been like that for more than a year? Do yourself a favor and get out quickly!
And no, you have to find a job. Why would you be entitled to someone else's money?

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Reading this I’m assuming you guys don’t have any kids together. 
Your unhappy in the relationship correct?
Maybe you should talk to him about the whole situation & that you want to leave.
He isn’t entitled to financially to support you. You said your activity looking so keep it up.
You shouldn’t stay with him just cause he supports you especially if their no children involved. 
Good luck & I hope everything works out for you.

Should I leave my husband?

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