They haven't seen my baby

So my grandma has been living with my aunt really close by but the past months she went to stay with one of my other aunt..so she hasnt seen my newborn babygirl. She use to live 6 hours away and goes back and forth a couple times a year to clean up the house and land..my brother and his girlfriend had a newborn baby girl a week after mine was born..and well my grandma went back to the old house to clean and she met my new niece but still hasnt met my babygirl and then my brother was in shock that she hasnt met mine..its like why does everyone expect me to bring a newborn to them😑I had brought her to my aunt's close by nothing knowing she was staying with someone else. People talk about how they want to see my babygirl but dont make the effort..and then later on they going to wonder why she doesnt want to be held by them lol..like my in laws each time they come see her she asleep so I let them watch her for a couple hours and my mother in law couldnt get her to stop crying but wouldn't text or call me to tell me🤦‍♀️😑and I have an 18 month old boy too..so it just irritates me that I have 2 under 2 but people expect me to always make the 100% effort all the time..