The hospital bag situation is stressing me out.

When did y’all/will y’all pack your hospital bags?

I’m 28 weeks and my baby shower is November 10th. I know I’ll be getting a diaper bag and want to wait until after that to pack my hospital bag but my best friend who is also pregnant has had hers packed for weeks and said that if she goes into preterm labor it needs to be ready and she keeps berating me to pack mine.

I don’t know if I’m being irresponsible by waiting but I’m not even sure what to pack yet because I haven’t done my hospital tour either.