Long long rant 🤦🏻‍♀️

I never thought I would actually have my own child. Or get married at that. I wanted to have a very successful career and then in my late 30s or early 40s. I’d foster or adopt. I’ve always been a big animal person. Specially dogs. So when my (dad’s) side of the family found out that I was secretly married and was pregnant. I feel like they had some weird pride that I was finally fulfilling my womanly duties and giving my dogs up (lol not). I told my grandmother and the next day I had my aunts and cousins posting to my timeline congratulating me before I even officially told anyone else.

My life hasn’t gone how I expected to but I’m not upset. I’m excepting this wonderful baby and going to be just fine. Now, my pregnancy was a shock to me. My husband and I were married 5 months when we found out. Im in the military (which my family absolutely hates and was hoping I was getting kick out because I was pregnant) and I was at a “slow point” of my life. So I guess the good lord was getting me ready for this or something, I don’t know. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Back to my annoying family, so pregnant right? All so happy that the anti kids one was finally giving into to their ways. Well I guess I come from a family of natural born champion pregnant woman because god forbid I post anything about complaining about my pregnancy. Like I said before, I never thought I would get pregnant and pregnancy stuff use to (kinda still does) creep me out. So forgive me if I’m not a ball of sunshine when it comes to all the joys of first trimester. So today in particular has been extra rough, I’ve tried taking some meds to get rid of the nausea. Today it didn’t work and the toilet has been my best friend. So I made a little post on FB like “I’m so over the nausea, this kid is so grounded forever” and within matter of minutes the natural child birth champs were on my status like donkey Kong posting like “suck it up” and “it will be better after you get use to it and stop complaining” and with my pregnancy hormones, of course I get heated pretty quick and just delete the status. My husband family doesn’t help either because I say this is our one and done and they insist that I just can’t stop after one. 🙄😒😡 like I’ll be 23 when I pop out this one. I plan to have quite sometime of schooling ahead of me. Calm down with the nonsense. 🙄

I know this post really doesn’t have a purpose, I just had to complain somewhere. Before I lose my mind on everyone 😅