Tomorrow is my husbands birthday!!

Tomorrow my husband turns 21, I had this whole thing planned for him. But once again I have to carry everything on my shoulders because no one else cares enough to even send him a card. But anything for them he goes above and beyond to make them happy. His mom had 9 children he has 3 older sisters and 3 brothers and 2 younger sisters 🤦🏾‍♀️it’s too many of them to just not care I don’t understand.🤷🏾‍♀️ I don’t want to be rude to anyone but what should I say?