should i lose my virginity to a player?

I’ve been talking to this guy for a while, and well he’s the first guy i’ve ever really like gone out with. since no one really pays attention to me since i’m not really attractive. He clearly just wants to get in my pants and he’s clearly a player , (we’ve talked about it and he said he was playing me in the PAST (but i know he’s still doing it as i have backup sources but whatever )) i don’t know if i should or shouldn’t? help? welp? sisters a sister is in need of guidance ahahaha

also btw: i know a lot of people think their virginity is a big deal but i kinda don’t think of it as a big deal for myself