Im 32 weeks pregnant with my Rainbow baby and my baby shower team seem to be split on to not include children in my shower. I personally, financially and just pure enjoyment dont want out of control kids to ruin this day. Im all for them being invited but I dont want the already small budget to go to creating entertainment for kids. Such as jumper or even the decision as to a location. My sister is pushing a location that I do not want simply because theres room for a jumper, playground ect... the place is over $150 more than the preferred option of having it in the backyard where I live my besties home, tables, chairs and decor. My 65 yr old father is the one that comes with 3 children under 13, when I was married years ago we did a small ceremony, went to our favorite brunch spot after and each paid for themselves. My father is still upset because my 6 siblings did not come I said they can but my husband and I are not flipping this bill father you can pay if you want, he just walked me down the aisle then bounced. I dont want the same issue with my shower but neither do I feel I want funds allocated to kids when funds are limited. What do you all think? My 2 closest neices are 11 super excited my nephew 12 same so obviously they will be there its the other peoples kids. My fathers younger kids, guests kids, and my siblings im not as close with their kids. But I cant say these can come but thise can nor. Please help