Pregnancy #2 announcement..

So im currently 12wk3d pregnant with baby #2 and not sure of how to announce this pregnancy as with my daughter i told a my partner when i found out and told me best friend at about 10weeks and then told my mum at around 18weeks. I wasnt ready to tell everyone as i was still in shock but eventually i told my dad (at 20 weeks) as i wanted him to know before i told anyone else.. to which he decided to go around and tell his side of the family along with my brother and sister in law and winge to everyone basically and then my sister in law was literaly pissed at me for not telling her when i didnt even get the chance to as my dad ruined it for me.

So im not sure if i should just tell everyone individually and leave my dad until last so he doesnt ruin it again or if just posting it on facebook would be easier.

Part of me doesnt want to tell anyone and just shock everyone when i show up one day with the baby bump but i know a few select people would be pissed off.

Pls help me out idk what to do 😂