Husband not excited until we complete genetic testing...
I'm feeling super alone. Last year we had a pregnancy that ended due to T21 and some heart related issues, it came as a complete shock in the end of my second trimester.
I am age wise, low risk, and after genetic testing also low risk.
I didn't realize how much my husband was affected by our loss, not that I was completely ok either. but here we are a year later.. we talked about wanting to try again, literally got pregnant with one episode of intercourse. I'm my opinion this feels so "right" like it's was meant to happen.
But my husband has been "forgetting" I'm pregnant.
Example: girl's night came up, I was on my way out he says "don't drink too much"😑
Me: "won't be drinking for the TWO of us over here"
Him:🤐 oops that's right"
I finally had to ask him. He said he can't get completely happy until he knows this pregnancy will be ok.😥😑
I rather celebrate each day, then live afraid.
Because chances are this will be ok.🙏🙏
I have to be sympathetic to him, because he lost our baby last year as well.
But I just wish he could also be here right now with me and enjoy this new blessing.
I have gone to the doctor twice alone, because he wants to wait. 😥