Need some advice.
So long story short I left Monday to move to Memphis, me and my daughter. Well I ended up staying in Memphis 1 night & having a mental break down the next day because ALL my family is in Louisiana. Well I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. I moved back to LA a year ago, with my mom. Our relationship isn’t good at all. I thought moving back it’ll get better but she lies too much. I just bought a new car few days ago & she lied to my daughters teacher like she “blessed me with it” when she didn’t contribute a dime. She lies to everyone like she’s the perfect mom but she’s so far from it. She’s really evil. So I basically took a night away to stay in Memphis and came back to LA (back to my moms). She texted me begging to come and she’ll help me o this and that. But hasn’t! I’m 22 yrs old with a baby & one on the way. I lived in Memphis for 4 yrs before I moved back initially. Should I just go back to Memphis & suck it up and just be happy? I mean I was so happy to be on my own in Memphis away from my mom and the drama she has. I only moved back because she wanted us to become closer but it’s only gotten worse. She makes it seem like I’m just a crazy ass and she tells people I need help because I tell her about herself & how fake she is. And her husband is a fake preacher “he went to jail for 11yrs and got out & now all of a sudden he’s a preacher”. Smh they’re both sick in the head. Should I just go back to Memphis for good & just live my life happy with my babies drama free and not worry about anything or should I stay close to home & continue to go thru this bullshit with my fake ass mom?
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She talks shit about me behind my back to everyone & she even talked shit about me to my aunt and my aunt was like wtf why are you even saying this? My mom wants me to depend on her & go to events with her and stuff she gets pissed cause I’m not up for that type of stuff.
*****Today I found messages in her phone, she texted my daughters early head start teacher and said she’s going to file for temporary custody so I can’t leave Louisiana with my daughter. She’s a joke right? When I gave birth to my daughter, I was in Louisiana. Of course my daughters father came from Memphis, she tried to file kidnapping against me and him of our own child cause we were taking our baby back to our apartment in Memphis. Freaking crazy right? Give me some advice! Please negative & positive, I’ll take it.
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