I’ve been dating this guy going on 8 months, our relationship is amazing. Though I’ve told him most of what I like and he’s pretty much got it down in the bedroom, what I want requires it to be more of a lifestyle than strictly in the bedroom. I’ve tried to let him know that but I’m not sure if the reason why he he still hasn’t been is because he shy about it or just the fact that he’s not completely into it. Also it’s hard I get him to be rougher he says he scared to hurt me but I already know I have an extremely high pain tolerance plus I know how to use a safe word.(I gave him one for the reason specifically)