was I wrong for my opinion in the moment?

So my bf was being a asshole last night he was upset at me over something really petty so he started acting childish and being a huge ass hole. So I told him that. He was texting me and I said you’re ruining my night rn you’re being such a asshole & you’re acting like a bad bf Rn. we’re in college so I had just came from one of my favorite night classes and here he goes.Anyway he got upset he said who tf tells their partner their being a bad bf or gf blah blah & I’m just like um me. I have the right to say how I feel or my opinion. I’m saying right now not in general and I said I’m not always a good gf but I can realize that and own up to it without you even saying it. I can take up for my actions and I know when I upset him or I’m being an ass. Anyways he said ok but still I never tell you that who are you an announcer? & at this point I’m like whatever and he told me to suck his dick and usually i let him control my emotions let alone anyone. When I get disrespected I flip tf out I curse back and go off but last night I was so calm. Probably the calmest I’ve been through out the whole relationship when we are going back & forth. I didn’t say anything but why are you saying that, you’re crossing the line. He know I hatee when he says that . I told him I felt like u were being a asshole & a bad bf at the moment I don’t see how that is disrespectful ? Then he said he doesn’t care blah blah he’s going to sleep & don’t text him a paragraph either cause I would text him telling him how he hurt my feelings and stuff but all I said was ok & I did just as that. Then about 20 mins later he texted me saying “Damn I was just really acting like a dick, I’m sorry baby ima make it up like damn I feel so fucked up I tried to act like I didn’t care I feel guilty asf I’ll make it up don’t worry “ and I said “it’s good” and then he replied “ How u ask for me to notice my mistakes this and that I do it & ur acting like u don’t care maybe I shouldn’t have said nothing” then I told him it’s not that idc but I’m tired of words. We’re always saying how we’re gonna work on ourselves and our reactions & not cross the line but yet here he goes and he’s the same one that doesn’t ever wanna argue. & I told him i said it’s ok but it’s not tbh but maybe ill be fine in the am. Tht was around 12am and it’s the next morning he didn’t reply he’s at work. Was I wrong for telling him he’s being a bad bf right now like I don’t get it.

Update: he was upset because a guy complimented me and I said thank you. He said I’m rude to everyone else except guys he said I shouldn’t even had said anything just walk away or don’t reply. So he started saying he doesn’t trust me and how I can be fw other guys blah blah. He said I’m too friendly over a thank you! & I told the guy I have a bf . He told me my bf better marry me and he respects that. So he started acting weird and when I asked him if he loves me he didn’t even respond he said what are u doing . And I was just like wow you can’t even say you love me cause I told a guy thank you. Wow. He also said he didn’t care if he ruined my day because his day was going great