Why do we stay with these men that are less than we deserve?

That is my honest question! I could sit here and described SO and I know what everyone’s opinion/advice would be... go therapy, communicate, you can do better.

Why do we stay? I can’t say there is a whole of love? Is it fear? The kids? It could be worse? He’s not abusive? What are your reasons for staying in relationship that you are un-happy in? Sometimes we have fun...