Trans Sex

I am a cis pansexual woman dating a demisexual trans man. It has been almost half a year and I see us being together for a really long time. We are both feminists and queer activists and I love it.

Sex with him is amazing for me, though sometimes I worry I am not pleasuring him enough. We sometimes masturbate together and kiss when we come together which I think is adorable. Anyone else has any tips or stories?