This is my second pregnancy and although the first was hard this one is proving to be worse. I suffer from migraines and days of vomiting and just not feeling good at all. I’m a SAHM to a really sweet and happy although rambunctious 17 month old. My husband just got “talked to at work.” He already has a high stress job and already worked about 50 hour weeks. They don’t think he’s committed enough (it’s a new boss who has been there for two month, don’t even get me started). So needless to say my husband is under even more stress at work and is not working 5:30am-7:00pm Mon-Fri and until about 11 Wednesday’s and will go in on the weekend. I understand he’s under pressure, but with how sick I am I need more help. I’m worried the stress will start to hurt baby #2. My parents live about an hour north and have offered 17 month old and myself a room to stay with them for the remainder of the pregnancy.

Pros: 1) I would have help and family (husband and I don’t have anyone down here yet)

2) I can go see my old OB who I miss a lot and that would reduce stress (I’ve seen three so far and I’m not comfortable)

3) We would save money because my parents are too good to us and will buy my groceries.

Con: Obviously being away from hubby for 4 months. However he thinks this would be good for us.

What do you think?