me and OH been together 8 years we have had ups and downs like every relationship but tonight had me thinking he told me he was going to a charity even with a male friend i dont mind that at all we last spoke about 6 pm he said he would call or txt to let me know he got home ok but suprise no call or txt and his phone is off he is not home as i messaged a member of his family asking if he was home safe its now 2am and still nothing would you be worried no hate please