Guilt after Miscarriage

I miscarried my first pregnancy. Everyone knew about it. We were so excited that we posted the news as soon as I got a positive test. Now that it's been a couple weeks, my husband and I want to try for a baby again. But I feel so much guilt for trying so soon. Plus everyone keeps saying things like "Well you can always try again." And "So when are you ready yet?" Like I'm supposed to just be able to move on from this.

Does anyone else feel this way? So guilty about trying again.... like i lost a basketball game and there's another one next week.

And how do you cope with the crippling fear that it's just going to happen again? I've wanted children for so long. And now every day is consumed by sadness and fear.