my boyfriend doesn’t go down on me...?

edit: if you read my post i’m asking if this is common! nothing more. i don’t want my bf to go down on me if he’s not into it. please don’t be rude, thank you.

so my boyfriend and i have been sleeping together for about 2 months 😃 in that time, he’s only (kind of) gone down on me twice. later, he told me that he was sorry, but he couldn’t do it, and that he had a bad experience with his ex 😕

at first i was fine with it, when my exes had gone down on me i never really enjoyed it much anyway, and i would never pressure him to do something he doesn’t want 🙅‍♀️ but suddenly idk just the way he said he got me thinking. is this a common thing for guys? 🤔

this might be kind of tmi, sorry 😬 but i was kind of thinking. i’ve been with quite a few guys and maybe 40% of them went down on me without a problem, but they were either young (like 19~20), very inexperienced (it was their first/second time ever), very experienced (literally hundreds of women), i was dating them, or a mix of these. my boyfriend only fits into the dating one. also, i never asked anyone to do it, they would either just do it or they wouldn’t, so i don’t really know if more of them would’ve done it if i asked 🤷‍♀️

anyway, obviously i would never tell my boyfriend this, he’d probably feel terrible, and he clearly isn’t into it so i would never want him to feel pressure to do something he doesn’t like! 😖 this is more just for my piece of mind! let me know if you have any experiences with this! is it common for a guys? you might think i’m crazy for looking into is so much, but i kinda get like this when something is on my mind 😂 and as you can tell, i’m quite young 😂😂😂 so i don’t really have that much knowledge on this kind of stuff!! thank you