First time giving a BJ?? Help??

Question

Note: I’m a lesbian with a transgender girlfriend. If you have a problem with that you will be flagged, so just go. 
Like what have your partners said makes them feel the best? 
Also I shouldn’t do anything unless she has like a full erection, right? I have no idea. 
I’ve never given a bj and she’s never gotten one but I want it to be like incredible for her
Some people have said that it’ll be amazing for her since it’s her first BJ, but my best friend is a guy and he said his first BJ was awful... 
Idk what to do I want her to feel good
Help??

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Didn’t you post this the other day? You’ve just gotta practice. Watch some porn if you think it’ll help. I think it’s easier to manually stimulate then give a blowjob. You’ve gotta talk to her about what she wants and what feels good

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The best part is the way you lead into it. Tease the shit out of her. Kiss her ALL OVER expect for the penis. Go 10-15 minutes of rubbing, kissing, lighting biting before even touching it.
Then lightly run your fingers all over it for 2-3 minutes.
Then lightly lick all over it for 2-3 minutes.
Then slowly put it in your mouth and out, going a little deeper each time. 
Then get into it.
Suck it no harder than you would suck a lolllipop. Go up and down a little faster. Put your hard at the base and twist it while you go up and down and suck the tip.
Then she’ll cum and love it.

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It is easier to do when the penis is erect. But in my experience the second you put your mouth around it... it will get hard! Not everyone is turned on by the same thing. But here are some things you can try or consider.  First... have her let you know what feels good and what doesn't. That way you can learn how to please her. I've found that most guys like when you use your hand and mouth at the same time. Use your hand to almost stoke the shaft while you give the BJ. Be careful not to use teeth! Vary the speed and how deep you take it in your mouth.  You can take your tongue and flick just the head of the penis or lick around it. Some guys like when you softly play with their balls at the same time. Some guys like their balls sucked on. If you don't use teeth I think you will be fine and learn as you go. Good luck!

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You sound like a giving partner. 🙂The penis doesn't need to be hard before you start, but if you start kissing your way down her body, it will be at least partially hard by the time you get there. Basically, you want to create friction and wetness. Kinda like the same up and down action on the penis as intercourse or manual masturbation, but using your mouth ( if that makes sense). I don't really suck, I just use my cheeks to create friction and tongue strokes up and down along with my head. Messy and wet is good so if you don't want to swallow, let the pre cum and cum drool out of your mouth. Don't forget the balls! Kiss them, stroke them, cup them..during the act. I usually am most comfortable sitting of kneeling between his thighs facing him. That way I can make eye contact too. Good luck and have fun!

First time giving a BJ?? Help??

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