Here’s my back story:

I have an almost 4 year old son (he will be 4 at the end of December) and I am pregnant with our rainbow baby girl.

I had an ectopic pregnancy that resulted in having my dominant Fallopian tube removed due to it erupting.

It took me over 1.5 years to get pregnant with our rainbow girl after my ectopic. It’s been rough with nausea and vomiting in the beginning and now being 32 weeks pregnant I am uncomfortable but I am so happy of the fact that I am pregnant.

Here’s my rant:

When people ask me what I’m having and I tell them a little girl, they automatically say “oh then you’re done!” “That’s awesome you have 1 of each you can stop now!”

Umm... excuse me what business it is of yours if I’m done or not?! It took me so long to get pregnant after my son and my husband and I aren’t sure if we are done. We aren’t sure if we can get pregnant again.

I absolutely HATE HATE HATE when people say that. Like maybe the gender wasn’t our goal .. maybe the number is the goal for our family.

Ugghhh it just makes me so mad. I just tell them we aren’t sure if we are done thanks.

It’s annoying and I’m over it.