Need help :/ Month 4 of no BC and feel lost

I stopped BC on July 1 so that we could start TTC. The first month was terrible with symptoms things have settled down now and I seem to have regular cycles. With that being said, according to glow I am 7 dpo. My last period ended on October 5 and I’ve had cramps nonstop in varying amounts of pain. I’m so frustrated and I know it’s only been a short amount of time, but I just don’t know what’s happening with my body and I feel like I’m never going to get pregnant. Anyone else have some success stories to share?