I need HELP‼️

I have so many things I don’t use or wear. I’m basically a horder & absolutely HATE throwing away or giving away anything. (I always feel like I can use it for something😒). Well I think it’s time for me to start giving away things & getting rid of stuff. It’s taking up way too much space & my husband & I are moving states soon. What can I do to help me get rid of some of my things? What can I tell myself? I literally have makeup from 5 years ago and clothes that are way too small & still cant seem to give any of it up. I need advice ladies please‼️ my husband is tired of looking at all this unnecessary stuff I don’t use.