Self conscious about down there?

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I’m super self conscious about smell/taste  and hair down there. My boyfriend has said a couple things about it off hand about me down there but he didn’t say it maliciously! Just as a guy noting observations. I don’t wanna tell him that the 1-2 times he said something made me super self conscious, but how do I get over it? He says he still wants to go down on me to give me pleasure but I can’t help but think about all that!  But of course as a guy he’s confused as to why I’m self conscious...
“ I didn’t realize how strong/different the smell would be. It just caught me off guard”
“ if you shaved down there it may be a bit cleaner. Not germ wise, but just easier for me to go down on you” 
Help?! Any advice on anything?
Also what’s  your preferred shaving style down there?

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Im not sure how to help.. my bf is super good at oral and he just doesnt give it really so idk.. but i shave and stuff too. Really dont change your routine if its what works for you. Vaginas dont smell like daisies. Idk what he expects! Fuck that though. His comments are rude

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I would shave it all off and lotion after shaving, then buy summers eve wash and queen v wash and use that in the shower, it helps. And if the problem persists then call a doctor.

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My fiancé has a fear of new things and sauce/yogurt like things. If he's still wanting to give you oral sex then obviously its not that bad, nothing to be self conscious about honestly. Since I lost my thigh gap I'm super sweaty down there and honestly it kinda stinks but it's mostly sweat in 9/10 cases. Unless its super fishy it is normal (if fishy go doctors). As for being shaven, its a personal preference, I get a rash if I grow out my pubic hair so I keep it short to avoid irritating myself. Maybe talk to your boyfriend about how you feel?

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My husband has made me self concious about it too. One time i had a piece of lent from panties or something down there and he was like what is this!! Freaked out so i have never felt comfortable since then. That was 5 years ago lol and sometimes im not shaved good or sometging so when he would try i would say no....and now he never even trys 😑

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A vagina isn’t meant to smell like roses and cookies. And as a man without a vagina, it’s normal for it to be a new experience to him. However, your eating habits do effect things like taste. And personally, I keep my bush but shave around the lips.

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Well what exactly did he say about it?

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What did he say?

Self conscious about down there?

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