Sensitivity with Hair & Washing the pearl hurts soo bad! 💔

I have a highly sensitive problem. You know when being a kid and play outside and fell down you have boo boo when yoy try to touch it "Directly" hurts so damn bad? That's what my clitoris felt like and no matter when I tried to get rid if extra build up there it hurts "Directly", I want it not to be for the rest of my life like that because I want to enjoy and love my body but it pain keeps ruining it. Plus I have a doctors appointment coming soon to see why I have hair inside clitoris hood and been in there for a looong time. Trying not to stress out about and we're going to New Jersey to spend time with family for Thanksgiving and I don't want to feel this on and off pain which happens daily. 💔 Please give me advice and tips, I would feel better and make my day complete happy. 😊💜