My husband is so distant lately and it’s driving me mad!

I feel like when he’s at work we talk a lot more but when he comes home he doesn’t give me much attention. So then I get upset and then I go to the room, take care of the kids, run some errands to get away. He has a lot of other things going on with his family which I told him not to not get involved with. I told him we should do a date night when I feel less sick and he just nods. I told him today we’ve been so distant and he doesn’t listen.

I’ve lost 10lbs and he doesn’t seem to notice or tell me I look pretty or anything. We have 3 kids and lately I’ve felt burnt out. Like I feel like getting on a plane and leaving.

He only gives me attention when he’s horny which hasn’t been very often anymore. I don’t even know what to do anymore.