Would you feel disrespected if your SO jerked off while you were home?

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My SO does this often, although he doesn’t realize that I know. I’ve caught him in the shower. And just today i sat on the couch and the blanket was wet. he said “that might have been my doing sorry.” but like he never initiates sex and we barely have a sex life. We have sex maybe once a month if that... And I always have to start it. When he finishes it’s done. He does nothing to pleasure me..... Is it me that’s the problem???

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I would see it as a problem only because it's starting to affect your sex life in a negative way.

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Sometimes for people masturbating feels better than actually having sex, just talk to him about it

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In your situation I would feel very disrespected as he's only taking care of his own needs and paying no mind to yours. Tell him you're feeling unfulfilled and are wondering why he'd rather pleasure himself than you both

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Maybe sex is boring. Try to spice it up a little.

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I would ask him why he is jerking off instead of having sex. Ask him is everything ok. I’m extra so if I caught him I’m not walking back out I’d be like umm what r u doing and why am I not involved 🧐

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Yup.

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I pressed no before reading. Yeah that seems like a bit of a problem, since it’s affecting your sex life.

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Just talk to him about it, maybe he doesn’t know that you want to have sex more often

Would you feel disrespected if your SO jerked off while you were home?

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