For anyone who needs this

Super long post ahead

So this is Tammy Hembrow the famous Instagram model (look her up) . She was dating Reece Hawkins , they had 2 beautiful ass babies and eventually he proposed . They had a huge beautiful home in Australia , fancy cars , expensive clothes , every material thing one can wish for . My best friend and I used to send& tag each other in everything she would post because we thought her life with her man and her kids and perfect face and body was just perfect .

This is your typical perfect picture , that you would see on the media with a caption “goals” or something along those lines .

They broke up and he immediately started dating this new girl (she remains single and is with her kids daily) . New girl is gorgeous but I can’t help but hate her lol 😂 he already seems to be an absent figure in his children’s lives and I know all of this because their lives are public for everyone to see .

So I guess the point I’m trying to make here is it doesn’t matter how successful you are , how much money you have , how good you look, or how many millions of people look up to you in this case . Nothing is going to make a person that doesn’t want to stay , stay . Ladies higher your standards , we all go through heartbreak but it’s not the end of the world stop forcing things that aren’t meant to be and focus on providing to your children, and if you have no children with someone you split up with then focus on yourself and consider yourself lucky . Also , social media can be toxic if you take it too seriously . There’s a difference between admiring and comparing and you have to know the difference . While this couple was posting perfect pictures , they were going through something that eventually broke them up behind cameras so you should really not compare yourself to the people you see online . I’ve seen a lot of posts recently on here of women who left their husbands for cheating , women in the process of getting divorce , women going through restraining orders , just know - it does get better !!