Need opinions and advice 💞

Hi ladies! I’m currently on my 9th month of trying to get pregnant, and it’s really starting to affect me mentally. I’m trying to stay positive, but it’s hard, and my husband says I’m not as pleasant to be around as I used to be because it affects my daily mood the fact we aren’t getting pregnant. So I was wondering 1.) how long it took you to get pregnant 2.) how did you cope with the disappointment and anxiety of it not happening each month. Just looking for helpful suggestions, so I can stay positive and keep myself in the right frame of mind. Thanks!! 💞