Hi ladies, I sometimes don’t really feel comfortable or secure with certain things that my boyfriend does however I don’t want to come across as controlling and insecure for no reason so can you ladies please tell me what’s right and what isn’t in a relationship?

Please answer in terms of communication such as texting or social media, and meeting up with friends, exes, other girls, random girls from social media, etc.

Is it normal for my boyfriend to dm other girls?

(Even if it’s “just as friends”)

And as for complimenting his other girl friends, is it okay if he compliments a girl’s photo in a bathing suit and if he tells her to post more often?

All of these thing hurt me a lot and I feel disrespected and embarrassed and yes I do speak to him about it. He tends to repeat certain things as sorry as he is about them. I just want to know if this is something that I should tolerate or if you ladies would be cool with it?