Did y’all plan to lose your virginity or did it just happen one night?

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I’m asking cause sometimes I see posts and it be like “I’m having sex for the first time on November 28, 2018 at 5:30 PM . Advice?” And it just had me wondering who all plans it out and who just does it without even planning 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Ours was planned bc it was on our wedding night 😊

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Haha same! Mine was pretty spontaneous. My friends and SO were hanging out at my house. Then, my friends left. My SO and I were alone, in my guest bedroom and had a pillow fight lol. Then one thing led to another 😊

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Me and my boyfriend at the time had talked about having sex but we never actually planned it just knew we wanted to when we got the chance

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Me and my now fiancé we’re both so little (14) and we never did it before and one time someone asked if we had sex before and so later that day we talked about it. He was all like “I really want to wait until I know I found the one” so we didn’t ever bring it up again. Then one day; we were laying on the couch upstairs watching a movie, and it seriously just happened. 10 seconds all together and We lost our virginity and he finished 😂😂 so instead of long story short.. it’s like short story long 😝

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What an interesting question and results. I’m going to share this information with my 14 year old daughter. I’ve begun discussing long acting contraceptives with her. She thinks she knows and controls everything so I wonder what she will think about nearly 70% of women saying losing their virginity “just happened”.

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We planned it out because we were 17 and needed to figure out a time and place where we would have privacy, which ended up being over Christmas break just before New Years at his parents house as they were gone. It was fucking terrible lol.

Did y’all plan to lose your virginity or did it just happen one night?

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