Oral sex

When me and my SO first got together, he made the effort to go down on me all the time.

After about a year I was constantly getting BV therefore he couldn’t. I still regularly get it. But now even when I don’t have it he still doesn’t go down on me anymore....

So out sex life is never him going down on me, it’s like fingering me for a minute and that foreplay over for me. It’s then my turn to go down on him.

Anyone else have a man who never really made the foreplay effort?