Why is my bf like this? Anyone else’s?

Is it weird I want to have sex more than my boyfriend? I want to have sex almost everyday and he doesn’t that often. And it’s only when he initiates it. I have told him I want to have sex more and make it more exciting but nothing has changed and we’ve had the conversation multiple times to the point where I’m tired of repeating myself. I don’t initiate it anymore bc I feel like anytime I do he doesn’t want to or he shuts me down and it makes me feel insecure. And we’ve been together 4 months? So I feel like he should be wanting to have sex all the time? It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me like I’m not good or he isn’t super attracted to me. He told me today he couldn’t wait to come home and fuck me and at 8:45 he wanted to go to bed. Like honestly what the hell. He is 30 and acts like he is 85. And it’s like he doesn’t listen to me when I tell him how I feel or he doesn’t care I guess bc things would of changed by now. I just don’t know what to do because I love him and he’s awesome but this stuff really gets under my skin. What girl likes to feel insecure? None.