He won't sleep with me anymore...

Hey i need some advice from you mama's that have/do cosleep.

I have been cosleeping since my son was about 1 month old and he's now almost 11 months. When he was tiny, it was easier to fit all three of us in our bed. But now, its extremely uncomfortable and my boyfriend doesnt sleep with me anymore unless the baby is in the pack n play(no crib right now bc we're moving soon). He'd rather sleep on the couch. Which i completelt understand but it SUCKS.

I have been trying to transition him into his pack n play for MONTHS. I even got him a mattress for it to make it more comfortable but no-cry sleep training didnt work and i i can't do the cry it out because we live with my parents and little sister and they all get up early for work and school.

He just won't sleep alone. He wakes up every hour at least. And i end up bringing him into bed with me because after 6 or 7 hours of me getting up every hour or more i just cant take it anymore and can barely even keep my eyes open to get him. So i just bring him in bed with me. And yes he wakes up through the night with me too but its easier to just nurse him back to sleep if he's laying next to me.

Bottom line: i have no idea what to do. I want to cosleep, but i don't want him to be codependant and i want my bed back and my boyfriend back. Help please.