I know this is long but... Pardon my lingo, but my future MIL seems like she goes out of her way to be spiteful towards me in anyway that she can, she always tries to put my SO in positions where he has to chose doing something with either her or me (and thank god he is starting to see what she is doing and has always chose me so I have no complaints with him! He’s perfect!) but I also have 2 babies, she has maybe said a total of 2 words to them together! And it really pisses me off! She has been with her boyfriend for 12 years and he has a now 14 year old son, which she claims as her own and expects everyone to treat him like he is, which to me is wonderful. But if she expects that why would she not do the same with my kids?! Their father is deceased so she’s not dealing with that and my SO actually wants to adopt them both so he gets very upset about her doing that... I seem to go out of my way to start a conversation with her but lately I just don’t give a damn and if she doesn’t want to like me then I won’t make it hard for her!

Should I? Any suggestions??

Oh, and his dad (his parents are divorced) has completely accepted my boys and they love him dearly already!