Does your husband buy thoughtful gifts on his own for u on Christmas

My husband and I have been dating for 12 years. He has only bought me gifts on Christmas once that were thoughtful and own his own. I usually have to tell him what to buy or buy my own stuff. Is it wrong that I feel like he should know me and know what I like buy now and shouldn't have to tell him. I like gifts that come from the heart. Doesnt neede to be anything fancy or expensive. The two times that he bought me something that I thought was thoughtful I found out that he had his mother go and pick them out. Now I just buy stuff for myself and he gives me money but I buy him gifts from the heart