Do any of you feel mentally sensitive to your incision area?

I don't like having anything touch the area. Not my husband, pants, I can take underwear, I hate having to wash it and usually make it fast and gentle. It doesn't feel painful and when pants slip on it and I'm not paying attention I don't even notice, it's just when I think of it. Anyway to get over this feeling? I feel silly but have tried to ignore it and just can't 😣