Is My Sex Drive gone ? 😪

So yesterday my husband approached me in the middle of the night for sex . Now usually no matter how tired i am , i give him sex (and usually dont want to now). Well last night i just turned over on him because im so not in the mood and this morning he had an attitude with me about not letting him get in my panties 🙄. My vagina is just rejecting the idea of sex at the moment . Im not really turned on and my husband has not done 4 play since ive been pregnant . . . So since he approaches me in the middle of the night most of the time he just pulls my panties down after rubbing my butt for a minute and im just exhausted, not horny at all . So is it just me or its just him not putting in the effort ? What do i need to do to make it work for both of us ?

Sidenote: He works till about 11 or 11:30 and doesn't get home until about 12 or 12:30 . So im usually asleep then .