At home pill abortion OR surgical removal.. ?

I understand people have different views on this but I am asking for advice from those who have experienced going through a situation like this.

My s/o and I already have a beautiful 1 yr old son and cannot have another little one with us at the moment. Its not the time.. I have some mixed emotions on this but I'm set on my decision and my S/o is forth with whatever decision I go with. I know either method is not going to be pleasant, but I would like to hear some different stories..

Thank you ladies for your time 😔