There’s a reason I don’t have close girlfriends!

Stephanie

Over the years I’ve been burned my girlfriends(friend girls) and so I’m very careful with who I let in. Well I let this girl in we got super close. Family like. She’s 34 and 1 girl then got pregnant by the same guy(never been married) I started watching her son and she would pay me after I got fired. We were able to help each other out so it worked. I even let her pay me when she could. She’s known for ghosting on our friend group. I invited her to a free show that’s tonight weeks ago. Then this morning I wake up early waiting for her to drop off her son. Nothing. I finally call her and she tells me she doesn’t have money to pay me to watch her son so it’ll probably be after the holidays. She then asks if I can watch him CHRISTMAS <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">EVE</a>! I said no. Then she told me her daughter has plans with someone else (I included her in the show) so I tell her I need to know if she’s still coming then she just says no. She CONSTANTLY does this. When we invite her out we never know if she’s going to show up. She’s a friend when she needs something. I know for sure we won’t be as close anymore but should I just cut her out or leave her at a distance? I love her son he’s my god son and I’m the only one who is that close with him but she’s toxic. The stress and anger I feel is ridiculous and shouldn’t be felt when I’m 27! This isn’t some hs drama. I HATE drama. So advice. What would you do? I’m just so done at this point but maybe I’m being harsh? Idk it’s just the last straw and am I wrong?! Alright let me hear your thoughts! Anything good or bad!