Advice for the First Time?

Question

Ok so like me and my boyfriend have been planning on having sex for the first time sometime soon and like, we’re both virgins and I’m just sooo worried. 
I mean I’ve heard so many horror stories about like condoms breaking and I’m worried it’s going to hurt, or I’m going to mess up. 
I’m also pretty nervous about starting... like us going into the bedroom and just neither of us knowing what to do? 
Right, AND occasionally when I masturbate I queef and that would be sooo embarrassing to have that happen during our first time!
Anyone have any tips or advice?

Answer

Well I’m assuming you’ve watched porn before and so has he so you have an idea as for what to do. If you take your time with foreplay and make sure you’re completely relaxed and turned on/wet then it shouldn’t hurt. Take things slow too, he shouldn’t just shove it in, ease his way into you. Get on birth control beforehand, if you can’t then make sure you have $50 saved up in case the condom does break (you should be fine though). Oh and if you do queef during sex who cares lmao it’s just trapped air, it happens to a lot of people🤣🤷🏻‍♀️ you can’t prevent it from happening. Just laugh it off or act like nothing happened and move on

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Only about half of all women have pain or bleed a lot. Fear of pain can often be the thing that tenses you up and makes it painful.
Relax, take your time, make sure you are very wet. If you have problems, stop and try again later or another day. 
If you are still getting embarrassed by queefing, you may not be ready for the most intimate act of all. Enjoying sex means suspending your own insecurities and control issues, and concentrating only on receiving and giving pleasure.

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My first time was a few months ago. It didn’t hurt at all, and it was great. If you’re both ready for it, it’s going to be special. If you’re both virgins, or if not, it might be a little awkward at first but it doesn’t need to be, my boyfriend had had sex before so he took control and I could not have asked for a better first time. Didn’t hurt, no bleeding, wasn’t awkward, I was just really ready at this point. We had been getting more physical and that night it just happened without us really realizing it. We even both were talking about it afterwards about how we didn’t think we would be doing it “so soon” considering I made him wait for a lot just because I’m a cautious person with who I’m intimate with. Anyways, if you have any questions, feel free to answer back!

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Sex won't feel great till you do it a couple times. The first time will be awkward as hell. But get comfortable being naked together and comfortable with each other's bodies. I bled ALOT my first time, and the day after. As long as u do a lot of foreplay to get wet and u relax and take it really slow u should be okay. If it's too much then stop and try again in a second. It feels like a lot of pressure, good luck!

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It probably won’t feel amazing and life changing. It will likely be slow, a bit awkward and over pretty quick. I spent the whole time doing sneaky checks to see if I was bleeding (I wasn’t). Definitely didn’t relax and feel comfortable until after a few times.

Advice for the First Time?

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