Better off single?

Question

Is it normal to feel like you are so tired of your significant other that you want to break up with them & be single? I love my man very much but I can’t help but feel like I get tired of him & wish to break up with him because of how he could be. 
1) his mother is a psychotic controlling monster & she babies her kids so much that they don’t even know how to do laundry 🙄 she’s already trying to take control on our kids saying she wants to raise them her way & they’re not even here yet.
2) he plays games so much (10+ hours) and so loud that I’ve threatened to turn off the WiFi & stop paying the bill because of it 
3) I pay most of everything since I make more & he does help me around the house... I hate the stress I get whenever I have a bad day at work because it’s like if I lose my job then we are both homeless & he doesn’t want to even think about a second job. He’s busy sleeping or playing video games 
4) we don’t see eye to eye & he tends to not admit his faults & turns things around on me instead of admitting that he’s wrong..  it makes me think it’s some type of manipulation 
Other than that, he’s really a nice guy & loving to his family. Over all he’s a good person but I can’t help but want to just anger upset I want to leave and be by myself and achieve life goals I have for me.. of course me actually doing it I don’t see me really leaving because I love him & I don’t want to be without him..
Is this normal??

Answer

I think that you’re at the point of no return honestly. You have obviously thought out how many reasons you have to leave him, which means it’s time to leave him. If I ever even for a second thought about leaving my man, I’d come up with as many reasons why not to leave him, not the other way around. It sounds like he depends on you for happiness and for his basic needs. Go find a man who is self sufficient and can treat you better! You deserve it.

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Ok. First of all, love isn't just a feeling. Love is a commitment and if you're contemplating leaving you're not committed. You might have strong feelings for this person, but I question if it is sincerely love because when you love someone you don't contemplate leaving just because times get tough and you  get tired of them.
That said, if you're not committed and don't care to work through this then just do yourself and your partner a favor and go ahead and move on. No sense in sticking around if you don't wanna put in the work, hon.
Good luck whatever you choose.

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He is not going to change and your only going to become  more upset with the situation. You have no children  and you are not married ... LEAVE. Also someone  who loves you would listen to your concerns  and try to fix them. It's not fair that you are paying  most of the bills because hes too lazy to get a 2nd job or a better  job. If you have all these reasons to leave then I think you already know what you want to do. I know it's hard to walk away from someone  you love, but how much does he love you if he knows you are hurting and bothered by these things and he doesn't  care. I have leaned  a very hard lesson  and it's the truth  actions speak louder then words.  Good luck I have  been in a similar  situation  so i do understand  what you're going through  and I know how hard it is.

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