Does anyone else have to initiate sex EVERY TIME?

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Like he knows I want it but unless I basically beg him I get nowhere. We don’t live together so I come home and I cry because maybe he doesn’t want me anymore and I don’t know if I should be worried if I did something. Like he’ll literally have a boner and like just ignores it I guess. Like I really thought something was gonna happen today and I told him like I want you and I told him I was wet and he continued to get my hornier and hornier.

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You need to talk to him about that. It’s not fair to be the only one initiating.

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Most of the time my hand trails south. I can read his cues. We cuddle constantly and I know when he's into me doing more. I rub his chest constantly. I felt like he wasn't into it so much but he tells me he is. He likes me to initiate. Then he takes over 90% of the time.

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I wouldn’t say every time but most of the time. I think it’s because he is such a man, that when it comes to sex he wants to change it up. He likes to see me in control & tell him what to do.

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Does it turn him on when you beg for it so he wants you to ask? Is he feeling shy about asking? Ask him why he never initiates... I bet his response will be “you always do so I never have to”. I’ve had a similar situation before and heard similar stories! He just knows you will so he doesn’t bother! (Even though he still should try and initiate sometimes!)

Does anyone else have to initiate sex EVERY TIME?

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