Are there any birth mothers out there who are currently pregnant with one that they’ll keep? When I was 19 I made an open adoption plan for my son. He went to an AMAZING home after birth and I couldn’t have asked for better for him. Fast forward 12-13 years and I’m now married to the most fantastic man and we’re expecting our first in August (same birth month as my son oddly enough). I’m having a hard time not feeling guilty about keeping this baby. Are they’re any mothers in the same boat or who have been through the same thing?