How should I talk to him??

There's a boy I like and we've done things but we've never had sex cause he went soft from the amount of alcohol he drank on nights out, I really wanna msg him and like talk to him But I feel like it would be awkward as I knew his friends before and they pushed me into him the first night but then it may have slipped out to them about what happened the first night and the guy got teased to shit and then the second time i told them we hadn't had sex and they put 2 n 2 together and teased him more and now I feel he doesn't like me anymore and his mates tease me saying I did things with the freak of the group when he's actually really nice like he's the most normal of them all he's not the best looking of all but I like him and I don't know what to do? I don't wanna get shut down by him if I msg him and all the boys find out but I really wanna msg him I just dunno what to say. I've only met him 3 times the first 2 he came back to mine the 3rd I stayed round one his mates with the others whilst he went home and he spoke to me normally but not as much as usual as the boys kept bringing it up

I got drunk the other day with some my mates and was telling them the story and I sent the guy a snap but he hasn't opened it yet but then I don't think be used snap regularly but it's been a few days i don't remember what it was either..?

Should I wait n see if he replies to the snap or msg him on Insta ignoring the snap I sent idk?