How did you tell your S/O about your desires?

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I have these sexual fantasies and I want to be tied up and forced to cum like whips, vibes, dildos and butt plunges sort of things. Talked dirty to the whole fifty shades of grey style fantasies but my husband is not really into it and I’m embarrassed to talk to him about it cause I don’t want him to think I’m weird. So how did y’all tell your husband you are into this type of thing?

Without it turning into this type of awkward thing....