so my boyfriend and i have both been a little curious about trying anal. ive only had someone insert a finger in their before but i liked it. i'm really afraid of like shitting or something and also self conscious because (this is TMI) my hole has this little ball of skin around the rim that sticks out, kind of like a second clit. it's harmless, but it's embarrassing because no one else that i know has a weird oddity with their asshole 😂 i will hopefully get it removed one day to gain confidence.

also, any tips for your first time with anal?