Husband finishes first

So today I finally broke out crying. Idk if he hurt my ego or just my feelings. Lately he’s been finishing first all the time. Yes he takes care of me but why always run for the vibrator??!!! Am I wrong that I want him to please me with his stuff??? Yes I’ve mentioned it before and I get excuses that because of a kidney stone or back pain or medication. How much more am I willing to be ok with it??!! Yes he’s a good husband aside from this issue. But am I just crazy??