I'm so upset 😫

Angel • engaged💍👫 baby in heaven 👼 beautiful baby girl 5/8/2019 🤱👨‍👩‍👧 due July 2020🤰

So we have been planning a gender reveal for over 2 weeks. A lot of family took today off to be there for it. But my SOs boss told him he couldn't take half the day off even though he requested it off 2 weeks ago and was told that was fine. So now he keeps telling me to still do it without him. I just feel like it wont be any fun. And that this is something we are supposed to do together. Should I just cancel on everyone? I would feel bad doing that. 😪