So my ‘best friend: Amy’ introduced me to this ‘guy: Richard’ 11•18•18 and she was gushing about how cute of a couple we would make and stuff like that.

So Richard were talking actively for over a month and on Christmas, Amy called me and said she was going to be in town for Christmas (she lives 40 minutes away) and how she hung out with Richard the night before and how they hung out, watched Christmas movies, and ended up sleeping in the same bed (I thought it was fine and I trusted them).

I ended up showing up at her house hanging out for a bit, left and took pictures and then I saw him. So I was excited to see him because I hadn’t seen him in over a month and usually he’s super affectionate and touchy when he sees me but I was the one initiating everything, but I just assumed it was because he was at work.

So later I got a call from Amy and we were talking and she just broke down and said ‘I need to tell you something but I know you’re going to hate me.’ So I told her that I wouldn’t hate her and if anything I just want honestly from people. Then she told me how something did happen the night before and how she ended up giving him a bj and how they both swore they wouldn’t say anything to me because they both didn’t want to lose me.

He ended up texting me later that night and I told him it would be better if he called. So he called me and apologized and everything he said seemed genuine. So the next day ( he told me to sleep on it )!I told him I was going to give him a second chance so then at the end of the call he said ‘I love you’ and ever since then he’s been saying it. We don’t even have a title yet and that happened.. I don’t know I guess I just needed to vent.