How do you calculate due date?

Okay so I’m on baby #2. I know you usually calculate due date by LMP but I know the exact day we had sex and conceived because last month was crazy and we literally only did it once. So can I calculate my due date off December 9th or by my LMP on November 30th. My LMP on November 30th was 5 days late for some reason so it threw my cycle off. Anyway with my first pregnancy I had no clue the day I conceived but this time I do. So is it more accurate to use December 9th or November 30th.